Why do bright, intelligent young
people, who have everything going for them, embark upon
a journey of self-destruction?
Why do they purposely hurt the people
who love them most?
Your childs destructive behaviors
are most likely symptoms of an underlying issue, disorder,
addiction, or trauma. Rather than address the symptom
it is extremely important that the core issue is identified
and managed. Wiping your nose doesn't make your cold go
away. It's merely a temporary fix until you must grab
for another tissue.
Many kids behave the way
they do because of payoffs. It may be difficult to see
any positive payoff that your child may derive from their
destructive behaviors but an understanding of the core
issue can clarify the reasons for specific behaviors.
Once the core issue has
been identified then the appropriate steps can be taken
to find your child and family the help that will address
the the underlying issue.
Children with certain behavior disorders
are cognitively incapable of comprehending the consequences
that may occur from an action. The correct intervention
can help a child manage his behavior in a positive way.
Low self esteem is a core
issue behind many negative behaviors. Re-establishing
a healthy self-image is vital to long term positive performance.
Be sure that whatever intervention that you do choose
instills life long positive change by dealing with the
core issues.
Many parents choose to
pursue interventions that address the symptoms only. Attacking
the symptoms will drive the destructive behaviors underground
- to resurface at a later date. This approach wastes valuable
time and resources and may even make things worse.
Parent Resources has created
a database of boot camps for teens. Lets
discuss what your childs needs are and the appropriate
intervention.
For any questions - call 1-866-590-6816
toll free. We have consultants waiting to take your call
24 hours a day/7 days a week - Call now! |
